Tez Talks Q&A // Series 2 – Episode 10 (Teresa talks Acceptance, Fixing People and Control)
Hi beautiful YZL-ers!!! Welcome back to episode #10 of our second series of Tez Talks Q&A! As this year draws to a close and we bring you our final episode for 2016, we want to say the biggest thank you to each and every one of you for tuning in, subscribing and supporting Your Zen Life, our Tez Talks Q&A series and Teresa. It warms Teresa’s heart receiving all of your kind words, wishes, support and seeing the YZL community interact. Teresa absolutely loved filming this series for you guys and we’re loving receiving and reading your beautiful comments and feedback from every episode. No matter where you are on your journey, we hope today’s episode can act as a source of inspiration and insight to help you along.
In today’s episode, #10, Teresa answers the following questions;
– Despite you being kind, loving, open and peaceful, do you come across people that make it clear they just don’t like you no matter what? I find it hurtful when people aren’t accepting of me. How do you deal with that?
– Do you have any pointers to help stop ‘fixing’ those you love the most? I know you mentioned you are like this and I sometimes have trouble being too critical of those I love most.
– Do you have any tips on how to let go of wanting to control everything and just be open to what’s coming?
In this episode, Teresa talks about how it can be really quite confronting being met by a situation where perhaps you find that a certain individual doesn’t like you no matter how kind, caring or generous you are. She talks about vibrational energies and connections and goes on to explain how it is really important to not take it personally and realise that it isn’t actually a reflection upon you, but rather a reflection on the person themselves. Teresa shares her experience with ‘fixing’ people and talks about a personal situation where she has to deal with this and how she chooses to move through it by sending love and holding the space for them. Finally in this episode, Teresa discusses control and how liberating it can be to let go and be open to what’s coming. She shares insight into her relationship with control and ways in which she works on relinquishing control and discusses how ultimately, nothing is in our control which is why it’s important to live mindfully and check in with yourself.